Have you ever been “nicely” told off or insulted? “Nice nasty” people (as they are called) can give you a piece of their mind, sometimes calling you every name but your own. I know that you know or have dealt with a few. The words – Nice; Nasty – are two extremes, but we have people who can nicely mix them together. They chastise you diplomatically which makes it hard to get angry at them. They have an amazing talent as they have mastered the art of “sticking it to you” while smiling and concurrently reciting their displeasure with your behavior. It is not unusual for them to find something wrong because they look for the needle in the haystack. Never forget that “nice nasty” folks personify the definition of the combined words – thus, making it difficult to access whether they are nice or nasty or “nice nasty!” It’s too confusing! Don’t waste your time trying to figure it out! Rather, spend your time with a focus on you…nice and easy!
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