Posts Tagged ‘Consequences’

PostHeaderIcon WHEN IT HITS THE FAN

By Vernalee
imageWhen it “hits the fan” is an expression denoting what happens when “messy and exciting consequences brought about by a previously secret situation becomes publicly known.” Of course, the regular expression is usually hyphenated with a profane epithet of obscenity. Usually a descriptive noun is inserted (I.e. “When the ____ hits the fan”), but we can objectively get the message absence it’s customary profanity. The net results is the same!
When things get chaotic or uncontrollable and become a scandal, it has “hit the fan” at a velocity that is hard to contain. The messy situation constitutes more than air blowing in the wind. The turbulence of it alone – can be challenging and damaging. In flows the questions. “Can you deal with the aftermath? Can you deal with the seriousness of the situation? Will you be in trouble or embarrassed once all is out … particularly if it is unpleasant or negative? How long can you keep the seal on or hide the unpleasantries or secrets?”
You will realize that once it “hits the fan,” the answers and often times consequences are rapidly blowing in the wind at a turbulent speed; sometimes traveling uncontrollably. What happens next may be totally left up to you. You can minimize the exposure, effects, and risks through respectful conduct. You can attempt to safeguard what you don’t want expose or better yet turn on the off switch as quickly as possible. Hopefully, it works before the damage mounts or before what you don’t want revealed “hits the fan” and circulates in a public environment. Warning! These careless whispers or blatant outbursts may be much more than hot air or a summer breeze!
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PostHeaderIcon ADDING FUEL TO THE FIRE

By Vernalee
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By definition to add fuel to the fire means to cause a situation or conflict to become more intense, especially by provocative comments; to worsen a conflict between people; to inflame an already tense situation; to say or do something that makes a bad situation worse; to make an angry person get even angrier. Figuratively and literally speaking, once “fuel is added to the fire” the flames grow larger and larger. The question becomes: Do we do things to make a known situation worse? If we do, are our actions – purposefully done, premeditated, mistakes, or just random acts? Sometimes, the answer may depend upon a number of variables. Sometimes, we can be flagrantly malicious; other times, we are completely innocent. For every action, there is a reaction. That statement is a proven Einstein fact. Thus, our actions usually are reactive to treatment that we have received. We can decide to ignore folks or situations and walk away or we can address them, deal with the issues, and stay. How do we decide what steps to take or determine which side of the pendulum on which stand? Conclusively, we must make wise decisions because we must live with the consequences of our actions. As to the perpetuators, all I can say, fuel added or not, “You reap what you sow!” Predictably, an explosion will eventually occur!
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