Posts Tagged ‘Don’t settle’


By Vernalee
Are you settling?
Don’t do it!
Are you in a relationship with a person that you tolerate, but really don’t love anymore?
Settling for someone just because they are available happens more frequently than not.
That’s crazy.
Well let’s see.
It’s hard to tell!
You can fool the masses because you are publicly seen out displaying a harmonious presence that wreathes of happiness.
If you aren’t happy, you’re a great actor.
It begs to ask – how could you stay with someone that you don’t love?
There may be a host of reasons.
1. It may be out of convenience. Although you detest the games that are played; the secrets that are hidden; the “stuff” that they have gotten away with while escaping the expressions of your wrath, it’s better than nothing.
So much for keeping the peace!
2. It may even be that the person has been around for a considerable period of time. It’s so easy to become comfortable. It takes work to “seek and find” love and compatibility.
3. Availability is key.
When someone is available, why go looking?
4. Fear of being alone ranks high. Everyone wants to say that they have someone special in their life.
Loneliness is a bomber!
There may be tons of reasons for settling, but don’t do it if the person is not what you want.
Your happiness depends upon it.
Prayer helps!
Pray to God to put an awesome person in your life.
Keep your antennas up.
If that person comes around, be appreciative. Show it.
It is wonderful to be blessed with the presence of someone who loves, appreciates, and respects you.
You’re no longer down and out; you’re up and away.
Let’s see what happens next!
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