By Vernalee
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Relationships; good times, bad times, making it work times, getting to and achieving love and happiness times.
Relationships – What an interesting topic!
Relationships are unique and so are the problems and the solutions.
All I can say is, “If you find one that can work, work with it.”
Happy relationships are worth their weight in gold.
Agreed?
Happiness beats heartbreaks.
Heartbreaks are heartbreaking; no matter how thin you slice it.
Where are you in this paradigm?
Find out!
Be experimental.
Take the relationship quiz and see where you land?
Here you go …
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Everyone deserves to be in a safe and healthy relationship. Do you know if your relationship is healthy? Answer yes or no to the following questions to find out. Make sure to check the boxes to record your responses.

The person I’m with…

1) Is very supportive of things that I do.

Yes

No

2) Encourages me to try new things.

Yes

No

3) Likes to listen when I have something on my mind.

Yes

No

4) Understands that I have my own life too.

Yes

No

5) Is not liked very well by my friends.

Yes

No

6) Says I’m too involved in different activities.

Yes

No

7) Texts me or calls me all the time.

Yes

No

8) Thinks I spend too much time trying to look nice.

Yes

No

9) Gets extremely jealous or possessive.

Yes

No

10) Accuses me of flirting or cheating.

Yes

No

11) Constantly checks up on me or makes me check in.

Yes

No

12) Controls what I wear or how I look.

Yes

No

13) Tries to control what I do and who I see.

Yes

No

14) Tries to keep me from seeing or talking to my family and friends.

Yes

No

15) Has big mood swings – gets angry and yells at me one minute, but is sweet and apologetic the next.

Yes

No

16) Puts me down, calls me names or criticizes me.

Yes

No

17) Makes me feel like I can’t do anything right or blames me for problems.

Yes

No

18) Makes me feel like no one else would want me.

Yes

No

19) Threatens to hurt me, my friends or family.

Yes

No

20) Threatens to hurt him or herself because of me.

Yes

No

21) Threatens to destroy my things.

Yes

No

22) Makes me feel nervous or like I’m “walking on eggshells.”

Yes

No

23) Grabs, pushes, shoves, chokes, punches, slaps, holds me down, throws things or hurts me in some way.

Yes

No

24) Breaks things or throws things to intimidate me.

Yes

No

25) Yells, screams or humiliates me in front of other people.

Yes

No

26) Pressures or forces me into having sex or going farther than I want to.

Yes

No

(Go to the “Love is Respect.org” website to take the quiz; submit to obtain the results).
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How did you fare with your score?
What’s your next move?
“Be true to thine self.”
It is not a pass or fail grade.
It’s your life!
Photo credit: www.quotesgram.com
Source: www.loveisrespect.org