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Although my mother went home to be with the Lord, she told me something years ago that I will never forget. I want to pass on the same...

By Vernalee Happy New Year! The countdown is officially over. 2026 is here! With it comes resolutions, goals, changes, aspirations, and so much more! I am truly thankful and blessed to see another year!  As I enter 2026, I pray for clear vision and wisdom as I pursue my spiritual, personal, and professional goals! I pray for good health and God's grace and covering for my children, grands, family/loved ones, and me. I ask that God order my steps in all walks of life. The New

By Vernalee The countdown to the New Year begins today. New Year Resolutions are not far away. What will you be doing on New Year's Eve? Will you be out at a party? Will you be in night watch service at church? Will you be in the comfort of your home with family? Wherever you are or whatever you are doing, be grateful! It truly is a blessings to see another year! It gives you the opportunity to be a better person, help others, show love and compassion, accomplish your goa

By Vernalee We are all uniquely made. Being our authentic self is the key. We have key attributes that highlight our differences. Besides, there is no one like us. Celebrate your differences rather than imitate someone's else's similarities. Stop the comparisons. Why? Just be you ... and rock it! Photo credit: pininterest

By Vernalee A one way friend is a term not to be discounted. There is such a thing. Friends are not necessarily transferable. My friend may not be yours and vice versa. Compatibility is a huge factor in friendships. Be careful who you let inside your circle. Every one who's in may not be there to stay. There are conditions that determine duration. Under no circumstance should you play matchmaker with your friends (i.e. trying to make your friend someone else's). Let

By Vernalee The lyrics of " I am blessed and Highly favored " bring the Word and deliver the message. No more needs to be said! Listen as the Clark Sisters share through their harmonies their love for the Lord! "He brought me through hard trials. He brought me through tribulations. Never let a day go by and not realize Had not been for the Lord who was on my side Back was against the wall He looked out for me. He heard my cry and rescued me Never let a day go by and not real

By Vernalee Above you see a twenty dollar bill. Over the years, I as you have held many in our hands  and have seen them come and go. I have a twenty dollar bill story for which some of you can relate. In the early 1970’s, I was attending summer school at Jackson State University to take elective courses. My friends and I had our first apartment. We were as they say, "Living the life!" All was going well until we ran out of money. In fact, we didn’t even have a dime which

By Vernalee One of my favorite quotes in the Diversity, Equity & Inclusion area is this one by the late great Nelson Mandela. We need to eradicate prejudices. Our world needs love … lots of love. It starts with me! It starts with you! The residual is a better world for all of us. Photo credit: pininterest

By Vernalee It’s here! The day has finally arrived! All of the traditional gentleness and happiness of Christmas permeates throughout the air. Some celebrate the “White Christmas” that they dreamed of having. Peppermint candy canes, yummy gingerbread houses, glowing scented candles, and stuffed Christmas stockings are everywhere. The house smells of love! Gift wrapped presents with decorative bows are marvelously scattered under the Christmas tree. Family and friends are disp