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Stuff We Talk About
By Vernalee
Thank you for visiting our site, “Stuff we talk about.”
Born out of discussions with my female colleagues and daughter, this site provides intimate and often times funny stories about our life experiences.
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ARE YOU DIGGING A DITCH FOR SOMEONE TO FALL IN? DIG TWO! YOU MAY LAND IN ONE OF THEM.
Although my mother went home to be with the Lord, she told me something years ago that I will never forget. I want to pass on the same...
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Jun 5, 20191 min read


CROSS THAT BRIDGE WHEN YOU GET THERE
By Vernalee Life’s travels take us down many roads. Some roads are paved (None in gold that I have seen; only I wish); others not. Arriving to our destination is the primary objective. Hills, valleys, and bridges we encounter along the way. To “Cross that bridge when you get there” means to not worry about a possible future problem, but deal with it when and if it occurs." Why worry about issues that don’t exist or haven’t happened? Besides, some may not occur. One of our
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2 hours ago1 min read


TODAY IS A NEW DAY...I SMILE
By Vernalee Today is a new day! God woke me up this morning. I have reasons to be thankful. I have reasons to be grateful. I have reasons to smile! With a smile stretching from ear to ear, I thank you LORD for your grace, your covering of me and my children/grands, your mercy, and another day of life to enjoy your bountiful love. I thank you for the blessings of my family and dear friends. I thank you from the moons to the stars for your love, mercy, and grace. I smile!
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1 day ago1 min read


DON'T LET YESTERDAY USE TOO MUCH OF TODAY
By Vernalee Yesterday is gone. You cannot get it back no matter how hard you try. Learn from your past. Take the good with the bad. Don't dwell on yesterday. Keep moving; keep growing. Live in the moment. Maximize the time that you have today. Put it to good use. Make the best of it. Don't become a "Wish I had done it person." Do it. Dream, Live, Laugh, Love, Enjoy! Photo Credit: quotespedia
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2 days ago1 min read


WOKE UP SO THANKFUL TODAY
By Vernalee The breath of life, something that many of us may take for granted is so very precious! I thank you God for life! I thank you Lord for your so many blessings. I thank you Lord for your grace, protection, and covering of my family, dear friends, and me. I thank you Lord for this day and pray for many more to follow. I thank you God for all things particularly knowing that you are with me to shine light and illuminate my path. Photo Credit: pininterest
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3 days ago1 min read


IT WILL NEVER BE TODAY AGAIN
Today. It’s here! Make the most of it. Use your time wisely. Don’t take people for granted. This is short and sweet. Show people - friends or family - what they mean to you today. Tomorrow isn’t promised!
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4 days ago1 min read


I FOUND YOUR NOSE IN MY BUSINESS ...AGAIN
By Vernalee If someone can discover the magic formula that will keep people out of other folks’ business, they would be extremely wealthy instantly. Why people cannot stay in their own lane is an aged old question. Finding the answer is just as ancient. It is enough work to stay on top of your issues and business without stretching yourself to wander into others. Who has the time? To help in the journey of minding your own business and not that of others, let’s turn again
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5 days ago2 min read


WATCH THOSE ORANGE BARRELS -NOT JUST ON THE ROAD BUT IN RELATIONSHIPS
We see orange barrels everyday on the roads and highways. They provide navigation signals, alerts, and directions. They may also signify a host of traffic related nuances. For sure, we steer around them. Mostly, we slow down. Maybe, it’s danger ahead - construction work, pavement disasters, or something concerning. The orange barrels warn us beforehand. Their bright orange and white colors are visibly noticeable. We cannot miss them! Changing the course, what about th
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6 days ago2 min read


A WATCHED POT NEVER BOILS
By Vernalee A watched pot never boils means that “time seems to move more slowly when one is anticipating something or waiting for something to occur. Further when something takes time to do, it doesn’t help to constantly check on it. You just have to give it time.“ Because of our anxiousness coupled with the waiting game - (waiting for something to happen), it can feel like it’s taking forever. We have to just let it be ...particularly those things that we cannot control. W
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Sep 211 min read
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