Stuff We Talk About

Although my mother went home to be with the Lord, she told me something years ago that I will never forget. I want to pass on the same...

By Vernalee It’s so easy to give up; so easy to stop. The true test of our character is our staying power; our intestinal fortitude to keep going even when it seems impossible. Because we cannot see the future, we cannot see how close we are to achieving/reaching our goals. Our hard work finally paid off. We must push ourselves. We cannot give up even when family or friends give up on us. When we believe in ourselves and trust in God, the sky is the limit. That’s my story

By Vernalee Communicate with God. Read the Word. Pray incessantly. Teach your family how to pray and pray with them. Sometimes, it’s important to “go back to the old fashioned stuff.” My Mother taught me and my siblings how to pray. We saw her get on her knees by the side of her bed. Before long, we did the same. She always reminded us, “Don’t forget to say your prayers.“ When we sat at the table, you didn’t pick up your fork before grace was said. These were values being tau

By Vernalee Lord, I come to you today in prayer. Like so many people, my thoughts go places that they should not. My mind thinks things that should not enter my space. My heart pumps feelings that I wish did not exist. Lord, help me to be what you desire. Help me to be descent, fair, kind, and respectful. I need your helping hands God! I ask for your grace; your Amazing Grace .I ask you Father to “ order my steps in your Word dear Lord. Lead me and guide me everyday;

By Vernalee It’s quite simple. If you think before you open your mouth, it’s a sign of maturIty. Let’s check out the acronyms. T – TRUE. “Is what you are saying actually true, or is it ‘fake news’? Lies and misinformation hurt others. H – HELPFUL. Are your words helpful? Assisting others to make better decisions through offering good advice is also important. I – INSPIRING . Are others inspired by what you are saying? People are greatly inspired by words which have the inf

By Vernalee The expression, “Bark is worse than bite" means that someone seems more threatening, angry, or harsh than they actually are, but their actions aren't as severe as their loud words suggest, indicating they are ultimately harmless or kind despite their intimidating exterior. It's used to describe people who talk tough but don't follow through with real harm, like a grumpy boss who's actually fair or a neighbor who complains but doesn't act on it.” I’m sure that you

By Vernalee Yes! God is in my business! What about you? I wouldn’t dare operate without him! I have learned to pray and ask for his guidance before I make critical decisions. Years ago, I relied upon my own understanding and intelligence. Not any more! I now realize that I am not a “know it all!” Making business decisions with God‘s guidance is assurance that if you slip or get lost, he will put you back on track. When you step on his escalator (which moves you automatica

By Vernalee What doesn't bend, breaks" is a proverb emphasizing that flexibility, adaptability, and resilience are essential for survival and strength. When applied to life and emotions, it signifies stubbornness or unwillingness to change in the face of adversity which can cause people to snap under pressure.” We need to be flexible and not so stringent to adapt to the circumstances and adjust to people. Otherwise, we will lose control. Pop! We never want that to happen - ev

By Vernalee Many of us are prideful. I know I am. No matter how much pride you have sometimes you can’t go it alone. You have to recognize that asking for help is not a sign of weakness, rather it’s a mature indication that whatever you’re dealing with may be bigger than you. Helping hands can be a blessing, a sign of strength and not a sign of weakness. Pride can also come before a fall. Ask for help if you need it! There’s no shame in doing so! The shame is in not asking.