Stuff We Talk About

Although my mother went home to be with the Lord, she told me something years ago that I will never forget. I want to pass on the same...

By Vernalee As we travel, there are tons of directional and caution signs including the Stop, Yield, Wrong Way, and others.. I’m sure that you have seen them all. Similar to the traffic signs, we also have many life directional signs and commands. Typically, there are only two major directions to follow - a right way and a wrong way. Sometimes that may change when we meet those headstrong individuals who have invented a new path to follow called “ their way!” I’m sure th

By Vernalee We are all uniquely made. Being our authentic self is the key. We have key attributes that highlight our differences. Besides, there is no one like us. Celebrate your differences rather than imitate someone's else's similarities. Stop the comparisons. Why? Just be you ... and rock it! Photo credit: pininterest

By Vernalee Why do people stay involved in other folks’ affairs? Is it boredom, the need to gossip, not enough excitement in their own life, jealousy, or what? The answer may not be clear; the solution is simple! Stay out of their business; mind your own! If you stay on top of yours, that’s a job in and of itself – very time consuming, I’ll say! In fact, when you mind your own business, you really won’t have the time to meddle in someone’s else! Plain and simple! If you don’

By Vernalee If someone can discover the magic formula that will keep people out of other folks’ business, they would be extremely wealthy instantly. Why people cannot stay in their own lane is an aged old question. Finding the answer is just as ancient. It is enough work to stay on top of your issues and business without stretching yourself to wander into others. Who has the time? To help in the journey of minding your own business and not that of others, let’s turn again

By Vernalee Growing up, I remember the old folks saying, “He might not come when you want him, but he’s right on time. He’s an on time God.” Those words stayed with me; they resonated in my soul. As I aged and experienced more life occurrences, I started saying those very words myself. My Mother was not an ordained minister, but believe me when I tell you this - that woman could preach; she could bring the word! Oh yes, she had a way of telling you things that you never fo

By Vernalee It's been said that "Parachutes are useful only when they are open, similar or in the same way a person's mind accept and learn many things when he or she keeps an open mind that is willing to listen and accept different ideas and opinions with saying NO. Keeping an open mind helps us stay functional; while a closed mind keeps you from having life changing experiences." Explore, learn, grow! Be open!

By Vernalee For those who think that they are high and mighty (“ thinking or acting as though they are more important than others”) , think twice! You are not! All I can say is come down to earth for if you fall, the distance is shorter. Yes, many have heard you say because of your financial where-with-al that “you don’t need no one.“ Others question whether you are a cover up hiding something that you don’t want anyone to know. Who knows? Quite frankly, for us busy folks w

By Vernalee Sugar and Salt both look the same, but oh my are they different. Both add flavor. One is sweet, and the other is not. Both starts with a "S." They are both white tiny granular nuggets that give food a discerning taste. Salt and sugar remind me of people. Some folks look the same; act the same, but once you get to know them, you get a taste of who they really are. The bottom line is - Be careful who you trust . Looks are so deceiving. All that shines ain’t gol